But also there's the fact that this is 'life'. It will hurt, there will be darkness and that's the point. They are necessary. Or else the 'good' and the 'light' will be meaningless without them. Giving up is easy, not the freedom or peace or solution.
One should put oneself in other's situations to understand them. This would be the first step towards peace. Mental peace, freedom will take time to achieve with many scars. After all every great things takes time. Time is the payment for greatness.
It's like a black hole with the event horizon being the point of time from where it's not curable. I have seen what stress and problems it causes to the victim and family. It just pulls slowly towards death.
It mentally disturbs the entire family. They just live with the hope of some miracle. Many would give up or try to give up for the sake of their family and it's kinda okay from their perspective but the ones who will live with it, it will be hard for them because they didn't give it their all to cure. If one is suffering from it then the closed peoples are tied with it too. It's hard to recover and it's very hard not to give up but we have to.
We gotta try at least, maybe miracles will happen. Even if it doesn't and death is inevitable then that death has some meaning. Regrets won't be clinging to that death. Fight, fight and fight. That's all we can do and should do.Title isn't a joke, this net really works. Many fake lifestyles and peoples are trying to manipulate and make a fool of one another. Can't fully trust someone now. Hypocrisy, wrong info are major waves in the ocean of social networks.
They will force their ideas and beliefs on others. They will tell others what everyone should like, dislike, think, good, bad to satisfy their own ego. If beliefs and thinking are not matching then there will be fights among each other, empty criticism and insults.
For some, it really affects their mental health and it won't change soon. Peoples can flip sides at any moment with just a little push. Without knowing facts they will believe anything or anyone or do anything and when truth is unveiled in front of them then they will do the opposite to prove their innocence. They are just at their own side. They don't care about anything else, it's just to show that they and their beliefs are good. Damn, it seems that unfortunately joker's dialogue is getting more relatable day by day I.e. "When the chips are down, these civilized people, they will eat each other ".
So if someone is reading this then don't just learn the morals, put that to work every moment of life.
Peoples see the situations from their perspective only and that's the issue. Everyone's problems and thoughts are different. It's different, but that doesn't make it wrong.
They decide on their own that something is right or wrong, normal or not and won't even try to understand other's decisions. Their ego and selfish nature won't allow to understand others. Someone who has everything and Someone else who has nothing, surely will have different ideas and beliefs. Someone who works and Someone who doesn't, Someone who sees and Someone who doesn't will say different things about the situation from their perspective. World is slowly getting sucked into chaos because of differences, ego and lack of understanding. Unless one backs down and let the other one stand with ego, everything will continue to get worse but how much one will endure for peace? How much one has to back down? How much one understands the truth and still has to be quiet?
It's a hard thing to understand the others and their perspective. Because it's hard, it will take courage to put down one's ego and selfish nature in front of the truth. Otherwise after sometime we won't be...human at heart.It has different levels with the highest I.e. the Selfless. It's really difficult being completely selfless towards anyone within any relationship. Nowadays it's very rare. Probably it's not even possible now with lust, wanting fame or not wanting disgrace, money, power, fear of society, attention or any selfish desires in almost everyone's heart. Time is changing rapidly and the past is taking all the selfless and good with it. We might be emotional and blind or society is telling not to see it but reality is different.
Selfish desires are there. some has more, some has less but it's there. But in some relationships, the desires are not completely wrong if we see through their eyes, they can't just resist it and it's not their fault too. Slowly real love is fading away from this world of burning desires. It's our choice either to burn in the fire and be nothing or become the air and finally be free. Choose wisely.
Then the lower level of "the selfless" can be the selfish. It's where majority of peoples fit in. From desires and satisfaction of choices breeds love. It goes on until the choices are satisfied. Then slowly it gives up and try to chase after someone who can fulfill it's desires. They will tell lies to fulfill it so think logically and carefully. When time flies then we can get more attached to even that selfish love and when they won't continue then it will hurt more.
So now in this selfish love world, maybe having some ego would be fine. It will act as a defense mechanism for own mental peace. It can help control the mental sanity and won't let chase after selfish love. I know ego isn't a good thing and can destroy but sometime it's necessary evil. For example, someone you love isn't loving you back then if you don't have ego then you will keep chasing after them and mental peace can be destroyed.
The third level can be the forced. When someone forces you to love them back. Influence your thoughts so it's not really natural love. Or take advantage of your situation to change your feelings in favor of them. Be careful about it. Extreme selfishness can be found so it can be dangerous for you.
Note: it's only the outer layers. Let's not go into more depth.
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